You may never have looked at it this way, but relationships have personalities, just like people do. Some are calm, durable, steady, and comfortable; others
“I blew it again this week,” a man said to me recently. “What happened?” I asked. “I don’t know what I was thinking,” he continued.
Our culture is a hard place to be a man, and even harder for men who are abused. The models of manhood we hold up
Growing up in the United States, I learned that a “real man” was supposed to be tough, self-sufficient, strong, smart, rich, and desired by women.
For many of us, life is usually such a whirlwind of activity that there isn’t room or time to really get things in order. We’re
Most people assume they have clear thinking. They believe their thoughts are logical. Therefore, when people disagree with them, they think it is everyone else
Emotional abuse is not something that is often talked about, but it is real and very destructive. We define emotional abuse as a pattern of
The majority of people who come to see me say they have been to multiple counselors, both personally and for their marriage, and that most
People often have anxiety about getting help for their marriages. That anxiety can have many sources. For example, concern about what others will think—will they
She came into her marriage believing they would work through anything. She thought the times they were immature, or selfish, or careless would simply be
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