New Release!

“Finally, a powerfull,
practical resource to
understand what a narcissist
is, and more importantly,
what to do to create positive
change.”

Despite what you’ve been told,
treatment IS possible!

You Don't Have to Keep Living Like This

Marriage Recovery Center helps people in high-conflict, emotionally exhausting relationships finally understand what is happening and find a real path forward.

Led by Dr. David Hawkins, Clinical Psychologist

Specialists in Narcissism & Emotional Abuse

Trusted by Thousands of Couples Nationwide

Marriage Recovery Center helps individuals and couples recognize and recover from narcissistic and emotionally abusive relationship patterns, through individual coaching, couples work, and a free online Relationship Dynamics Assessment.

Most people who come to us have already tried everything.

Three therapists. The books. The retreat. And they are still stuck in the same cycle, wondering why nothing ever actually changes. The answer is rarely what they think. Our work begins with understanding what is actually happening beneath the surface of the relationship.

You May Recognize This

You feel like you are walking on eggshells

Conversations go in circles and nothing gets resolved

You have started to wonder if the problem is you

Your partner reacts defensively to almost everything

You feel more alone inside the relationship than outside it

You have tried therapy but it never gets to the real issue

You are exhausted from managing everyone else’s emotions

Hope keeps getting disappointed

Not Sure What You’re Dealing With? Take the Assessment.

Our Relationship Dynamics Assessment measures your relationship across seven key domains in about 10 minutes, so you can finally put language to what’s actually happening.

His Work. Her Work. Our Work

His Work

Individual work for the person whose patterns are causing harm. Focused on accountability, emotional maturity, and genuine change.

Her Work

Individual support for the person absorbing the impact. Focused on clarity, boundaries, and reclaiming a sense of self.

Our Work

Couples work that only begins when the individual foundations are in place. Built for lasting change, not temporary relief.

Led by Dr. David Hawkins

Dr. David Hawkins is a clinical psychologist with over 40 years of experience and the author of more than 30 books on narcissism, emotional abuse, and relationship healing. He founded Marriage Recovery Center and The Emotional Abuse Institute to help couples break destructive cycles and find a real path to change.

Common Questions

Can a narcissist actually change?

Yes. Narcissistic patterns are treatable when someone is willing to engage in the work. Marriage Recovery Center’s Comprehensive Core Program targets the underlying thinking and behavior patterns, not just surface symptoms, and has helped thousands of people build genuine accountability and change.

What is the Relationship Dynamics Assessment?

The Relationship Dynamics Assessment is a free 10-minute online assessment that measures your relationship across seven key domains. It gives you clear language for what’s actually happening in your relationship before your first call with a coach.

Does Marriage Recovery Center take insurance?

No. Clinicians are licensed professionals, but due to state regulatory considerations, all services are private-pay and are not billed to insurance.

Are sessions available if I'm not local to Washington state?

Yes. Most counseling is conducted over Zoom. In-person intensives are also offered in select locations including Washington, North Carolina, Missouri, and Mexico.