New Release!

“Finally, a powerfull,
practical resource to
understand what a narcissist
is, and more importantly,
what to do to create positive
change.”

Despite what you’ve been told,
treatment IS possible!

Since 2010, Marriage Recovery Center specializes in assessment and treatment
for emotional abuse and complex relationship dynamics.

Better Communication
Won't Fix Your
Relationship

What you're experiencing goes much deeper than how you communicate.

Discover the real cause of your relationship distress.

Begin here

Relationship Dynamics Assessment - RDA Discovery

Answer 14 questions to gain insight into the reason you've been stuck in the same patterns for years.

step 2 - clarity

Relationship Patterns Workbook

A guided exploration that helps you identify and understand the relationship patterns that are most relevant for you.

step 3 - direction

Comprehensive Assessment Package

Work with a coach to get the full picture of what's really happening in your relationship, and get a clear plan for your next steps.

WHY NOTHING HAS WORKED

You went to counseling. You read the books.
You tried the “I” statements.
None of those helped because
communication was never the problem.

WHAT YOU’VE BEEN TOLD

“You just need to learn to communicate better.”

“It’s a 2-way street, and your problems are co-created.”

“You need to learn to forgive and let go of the hurt.”

WHAT WE ACTUALLY FIND

Pervasive defensiveness 

Power & control dynamics

Lack of emotional safety

Emotional Abuse Trauma

We treat the hidden patterns that are sabotaging your relationship.

Emotional Immaturity

Pervasive defensiveness & lack of accountability 

Emotional Abuse

One partner controls the narrative
and dominates the relationship

Betrayal Trauma

Your nervous system is stuck
in a trauma response

Identity Erosion

Loss of identity and sense of self, leading to self-doubt

Comprehensive Healing Pathway

The Comprehensive Healing Pathway is the culmination of Dr. Hawkins’ decades long career dedicated to cracking the codewhen it comes to helping high conflict couples who have “tried everything.”

His Work

Grow in self-awareness, emotional maturity, and take personal responsibility for your behaviors.

Her Work


Gain clarity, Set Healthy Boundaries,
Heal from Trauma, and Reclaim Your Sense of Self.

Our Work

Rebuilding your relationship from the ground up,
but only after the foundation for healthy dialogue has been laid.  

Led by Dr. David Hawkins

Dr. David Hawkins is a clinical psychologist with over 40 years of experience and author of more than 30 books on narcissism, emotional abuse, and relationships. He founded Marriage Recovery Center and The Emotional Abuse Institute to help couples break out of destructive cycles and create lasting change from the inside out.

Specialized Help for Couples Who Have “Tried Everything”

We use an “assessment first” approach to ensure that you get the right kind of help.  

Frequently Asked Questions

We do not accept insurance. We have licensed and doctorate level professionals on staff, but due to state regulatory considerations, our services are private-pay.

Our coaches are located throughout the United States and offer virtual sessions via Zoom.  Our 3-Day Intensives are offered in-person at select locations. 

* Call our office to learn about our Custom Packages which can be tailored to your needs. 

Yes. Narcissistic patterns are treatable when someone is willing to engage in the work. Our Comprehensive Core Program targets the underlying thinking and behavior patterns, not just surface symptoms, and has transformed the lives of thousands of people.