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Can Interventions Change a Narcissist

Can interventions change a narcissist?

Dr. Hawkins emphasizes the importance of intervention and accountability in the change process. He answers a common question rising, “can interventions change a narcissist”?

Can Interventions Change a Narcissist?

Narcissism, a personality trait characterized by grandiosity, entitlement, and a lack of empathy, has long been a topic of intrigue and concern. Many individuals have asked the burning question: can a narcissist truly change? This query goes beyond mere curiosity; it delves into the realm of emotional turmoil, relationships, and personal growth. In this article, we will explore the potential for change in narcissistic individuals, drawing from brain science and interventions as key components of the transformation process.

The Power of Changing One’s Mind

The notion of change is often met with skepticism, especially when it comes to those who exhibit narcissistic traits. However, as emphasized by the speaker in the provided transcript, change is possible when one is willing to alter their thought patterns. This concept is supported by brain science, which reveals that new thought patterns, if amplified sufficiently, can overpower the old ones, leading to behavioral change and ultimately, emotional health.

The Role of Intervention

To determine whether a narcissist can change, it is crucial to assess whether any significant efforts have been made to intervene in their life. Too often, individuals resort to repeating the same actions, expecting different results – a cycle of behavior that remains unchanged. Yet, through intervention, we witness the potential for a breakthrough. It becomes apparent that, like addiction, narcissistic behaviors can be altered through professional intervention.

Understanding Intervention

To comprehend the possibility of change in narcissistic individuals, it is vital to understand what interventions entail. These interventions often include professional treatment and, importantly, strict accountability. Holding a narcissist accountable for their thoughts and behaviors is a pivotal aspect of the process. It is essential to monitor their progress and ensure that they adhere to new thought patterns.

Assessing Outcomes

In evaluating the effectiveness of interventions, it is crucial to consider their outcomes. How successful was the intervention, and what changes did it bring about? Did the narcissist exhibit significant progress in their behavior and mindset? Understanding these outcomes is vital to determining whether true change is possible.

Bringing About an Intervention

If no significant intervention has been carried out to date, the question arises: are you willing to initiate one? The decision to bring about an intervention requires a commitment to change, both from the narcissistic individual and those close to them. Seeking the assistance of a trained professional is often a crucial step in this process.

The Change Process

While change is indeed possible, it is not a simple, magical transformation. The brain science discussed earlier highlights that it can be difficult to break free from established thought patterns. However, when individuals are motivated and willing to engage in depth counseling, significant progress can be achieved. The intervention must include a multifaceted approach, involving individual and group counseling, and, when appropriate, couples counseling.

Accountability and Heart Change

To truly transform a narcissistic individual, the intervention should not solely focus on behavior modification but also encompass a shift of the heart and mind. Accountability plays a pivotal role in this process, as it encourages ongoing growth and change. An intervention must establish a system that promotes a deeper understanding of one’s actions and their impact on others.


The question “Can a narcissist really change?” is a complex and emotionally charged one. However, based on brain science and the principles of intervention, the answer is an affirmative “yes.” Change is possible when the right conditions, interventions, and accountability are in place. If a narcissistic individual and their close ones are willing to embark on a journey of transformation, they can experience a breakthrough that leads to lasting change. The key is to not lose hope and to be open to the possibility of change, both for oneself and for those around us.

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Also read: How to Change and Adapt to Unexpected Situations

About Dr. Hawkins:

The internet is inundated with hyperbole and misinformation about narcissism, leaving many people confused and hopeless. Get the facts on narcissism and emotional abuse from someone who has been researching, writing about and treating narcissism and emotional abuse for over a decade.

Dr. Hawkins is a best-selling author and clinical psychologist with over three decades of experience helping people break unhealthy patterns and build healthier relationships.

He is the founder and director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute which offers education, training and counseling for people who want to break free of, and heal from, emotional abuse. Whether the perpetrator of the abuse is your spouse, partner, parent, boss, friend or family member, we offer practical advice for anyone trapped in a toxic, destructive relationship.

In addition to narcissism & emotional abuse, you’ll learn about the lesser known forms of abuse, including covert abuse, reactive abuse, spiritual abuse, secondary abuse, relationship trauma and much more.


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